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BUT the fact is that you simply cannot run completely on "Outer Game" scripts either - on techniques and routines - all by themselves.
Otherwise you end up with game that looks like this: This is what you don't want...
If you don't have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance, you probably won't even get past the approach - IF you even approach her at all.
And sometimes that knowledge will be enough to give guys approach anxiety right away.
I could even SEE myself doing it, and KNOWING that it was killing my chances with this girl... And then I went on this massive inner game "quest" I guess you could call it.
I wanted to figure out how to get control of my confidence, my emotions, and my crazy mind. Well, it's a pretty fancy term for some of our most important traits as a man.
You never got a book from your parents on "how to be confident and more sure of yourself." And I know you didn't have a class in school that told you "How to Be Confident With Women." Most guys have to learn by trial and error. First, let me ask you this: If you've ever had ANY of these things happen to you, you know that your level of "inner game" - or your self-confidence and "emotional intelligence" - was the one thing you wish you had more of.
That's weak, wussy game that women can detect a mile away.
And thanks to television shows and "pickup artist" stuff, women know all about the routines and openers you use.
That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny because you're forced to "fake" a lot more than you should have to. Now, just imagine what would happen when your Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete and congruent.
All posts from Kate Spring Kate Spring is a men's dating & attraction coach from Vancouver, Canada.
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..you're barely maintaining your level of confidence with women - and sometimes you feel like you're actually back-sliding in your game?